Sensual Essential Oil Blends for Women and Men

Sensual Essential Oil Blends

Men and women have used essential oils and scents in the bedroom, to boost libido and sensual energy, for thousands of years. Certain essential oils are well known as romance boosters, including ylang ylang and clary sage for women and sandalwood and cedarwood for men. But more than a dozen oils are considered to possess sensual properties.

For that reason, people often ask about using essential oils for sex and want to know which sensual essential oil blends are the “best.” But the answer to that question varies widely, depending on personal preferences and who you ask. Some people find floral scents to be very sensual, while others prefer spicy or musky scents. Figuring out what kinds of scents you like and which essential oils create sensual feeling in you can take a little bit of time and effort. (This post includes affiliate links.)

But some oils and oil blends seem to “work” for a lot of people, so they’re a great place to start. If you’re ready to experiment with essential oils as a tool for having fun in the bedroom and enhancing sensual energy, here are 10 essential oil blend recipes – for women and men – that you may want to try. And for some tips on using essential oils in the bedroom, continue reading below the recipes.

Sensual Essential Oil Recipes

Sensual Essential Oil Blend #1

• 1 ounce carrier oil (such as fractionated coconut oil, apricot kernel oil, or sweet almond oil)
• 4 drops ylang ylang
• 4 drops citrus (wild orange, lemon, bergamot)

Sensual Essential Oil Blend #2

• 1 ounce carrier oil
• 4 drops citrus (wild orange, lemon, bergamot)
• 3 drops sandalwood
• 3 drops jasmine

Sensual Essential Oil Blend #3

• 1 ounce carrier oil
• 8 drops DoTerra Whisper blend (this is my favorite)

Sensual Essential Oil Blend #4

• 1 ounce carrier oil
• 4 drops wild orange
• 3 drops lavender
• 3 drops ylang ylang

Sensual Essential Oil Blend #5

• 1 ounce carrier oil
• 4 drops bergamot
• 3 drops sandalwood
• 3 drops ylang ylang

Sensual Essential Oil Blend #6

• 1 ounce carrier oil
• 4 drops grapefruit or wild orange
• 3 drops clary sage
• 3 drops sandalwood

Sensual Essential Oil Blend #7

• 1 ounce carrier oil
• 4 drops lemon
• 3 drops patchouli
• 3 drops bergamot

Sensual Essential Oil Blend #8

• 1 ounce carrier oil
• 4 drops wild orange
• 3 drops clary sage
• 3 drops ylang ylang

Sensual Essential Oil Blend #9 – For Men

• 1 ounce carrier oil
• 4 drops sandalwood
• 4 drops grapefruit or wild orange
• 1 drop ylang ylang

Sensual Essential Oil Blend #10 – For Men

• 1 ounce carrier oil
• 4 drops sandalwood
• 2 drops cedarwood
• 2 drops clary sage

Tips for Using Essential Oils in the Bedroom

• Look for ways to save money. Essential oils can be expensive, and creating blends often requires buying several oils. Before you do that, try testing some out to see which ones you like. If you have a friend who sells essential oils (and who doesn’t?!?!) ask to try some samples, maybe enough to create a small batch of a blend you might like. Or, check out the essential oil samples in a natural products store or a high-end grocery store.

Another way to save money is to buy a pre-made sensual oil blend. I buy the Whisper blend by DoTerra, which includes all of the primary essential oils for women, many of which are expensive to buy individually. I haven’t tried a sensual blend for men, but this blend from Dreaming Earth looks like one my husband might like.

• Use the blends as a perfume, body lotion, or massage oil. All of the sensual blends can be applied to your wrists and other pulse points as a perfume, applied to the skin as a body lotion, or used to give your spouse a sensual massage with essential oils. (Be cautious about applying the blends directly to the genitals, as they are extremely sensitive.)

• Create sensual diffuser blends or bath blends using the same recipes. Use the oil blend recipes (without the carrier oil) with water in a diffuser to create a romantic atmosphere in your bedroom (or any room). Or add them to a warm bath. (Don’t use carrier oils in a bath, as they can make the tub slippery.)

• Play it safe. Always dilute essential oils. They’re highly concentrated, so dilute them in a carrier oil and test for sensitivity on a small spot on your skin. A 2% dilution – about 10-12 drops per ounce of carrier oil – is generally considered safe for healthy adults. (Consult a doctor before using essential oils if you’re pregnant or have health problems.)

If you’re looking for a way to relax, have fun, and increase interest in the bedroom, give one of these sensual essential oil blend recipes a try.

Want to learn more about using essential oils in the bedroom? Get a copy of my ebook, Breathe. Relax. Enjoy. How to Use Essential Oils to Increase Your Sensual Energy.

The information contained in this article is meant for educational purposes only and not meant to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease or condition. Statements in this article have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration and are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease or condition. This information should not be relied upon to determine dietary changes, a medical diagnosis, or courses of treatment or to address relationship issues. If you are pregnant, nursing, taking medication, or have a medical condition, consult your physician before using these products.