Thanks to Tyson Cooper, author of Uplifting Love, for sharing this quote from Simone Signoret in his article Hundreds of Tiny Threads. I had never heard the quote before, but was immediately struck by the implications of those words.
It’s true, isn’t it? Although the big events of our married lives create wonderful and exciting memories, it’s the small, everyday, seemingly mundane things that knit us together. The glances, the touches, the smiles, the funny stories, the private jokes, the acts of service – these are the threads that weave the fabric of our marriages.
Unfortunately, small acts can also destroy the fabric of a marriage. The resentments, the silences, the criticisms, the angry replies, the withering looks, the acts of love withheld – each one cuts a slender thread, eventually leaving us with a tattered mess.
Let’s choose, today and every day, to weave new threads into our marriages, with small acts that strengthen the fabric and increase its beauty.
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Holistic Wayfarer says
Wanted to put up a like on this – don’t see the button. Always a good reminder.
Most of my posts are serious and pensive…but here’s a lighter one on men and women:
https://aholisticjourney.wordpress.com/2013/05/04/men-and-women-another-difference/
GC says
LOL – yes, that’s a difference that would be impossible for me to understand either!
Gaye
Tyson @ Uplifting Love says
Gaye, I appreciate you mentioning me in your post! You’re absolutely right, while small things can strengthen marriage they can likewise slowly erode it. We must be ever vigilant. 🙂
GC says
Thanks Tyson – I appreciate you bringing this great quote and concept to my attention.
Gaye
Fawn @ Happy Wives Club says
Love this analogy! In the surface, a single thread is easily broken and doesn’t seem to matter much. But woven together, it can become tougher than tough (and the most beautiful site to behold).
GC says
Thank you, Fawn! I love the analogy too, and can’t take any credit for it being original to me!
Gaye
Julie Jordan Scott says
It is always great to stop by your blog. I’m visiting from the Pin it on Monday hop. You offer so much wisdom & surely influence many for the better. Have a fantastic week!
GC says
Thanks so much, Julie. I appreciate your kind words.
Gaye
messymarriage says
I love this metaphor, Gaye. And the “visual” implications of not weaving a beautiful rug in my life and marriage really hits home. It truly is the small gestures that build and create the kind of marriage I want. This is a gentle reminder that I need to keep on giving to my husband in the big and small of life. Thanks for another great post! Happy Mother’s Day, sweet lady!
GC says
Thanks so much, Beth. You always encourage me so much!
Gaye
thejennyevolution says
Visiting from That Friday Blog Hop. I’d like to invite you to my Friday Flash Blog, where you can share your best blog entry of the week! The party goes on ALL weekend at thejennyevolution.com. And who knows, you may just get featured next week.
Jennifer
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GC says
Thanks Jenny. I will stop by and visit you.
Gaye
Ngina Otiende says
wow, this is so profound. i love this “it’s the small, everyday, seemingly mundane things that knit us together.” So true.
GC says
Thanks for your kind words, Ngina.
Gaye
Christina says
Simple words that are so meaningful and powerful. I am moved.
GC says
Thank you, Christina!
Gaye