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End the Year with Fireworks!

December 28, 201227 Comments

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red and green fireworksLet’s end the year with a bang (so to speak – lol!) by making sex and intimacy a priority. Over the next few days, decide that fun, exciting and/or romantic sex with your husband will move to the top of your “to do” list. Then take some steps to ensure that it does – maybe by trying one of these ideas, or doing something else that works for you:

  • Think about sex.  If your mind won’t “go there,” read a book or blog (like this one or this one) that promotes a positive view of married sex, in order to move your thoughts in that direction. Think about something fun that you and your husband have done, or fantasize about something you’d like to do. And when your mind starts moving in that direction, keep it going – it’s so easy for the problems of the day to turn our minds away from sex and intimacy.
  • Talk about sex.  This is harder for a lot of women, but give it a try. Make a funny/suggestive comment to your husband. Let him know you want to have sex soon. Mention something you’d like to do for him, or would like him to do for you. Wherever your boundaries for talking about sex are set, push them just a little bit.
  • Get in the mood for sex. Whatever helps you get in the mood, do that. Exercise, dance, take a walk, take a warm bath, listen to sexy or romantic music, put on some lingerie, horse around with your husband – whatever works for you.
  • Initiate sex. Few things make a husband happier than knowing that his wife wants to have sex with him. And what better way to let him know than by getting something going. It doesn’t have to be big and bold, if that’s outside your comfort zone – something subtle is fine. (Although not too subtle – he’s not a mind reader!)

What do you think? Would these ideas help you set off some fireworks? What ideas have worked for you? I would love to hear from you.

I hope that you and I both end 2012 with fireworks, and look forward to talking with you soon about ways to stay calm, be healthy, and feel sexy in 2013. Gaye

Linked to the fantastic blogs and blog hops at I Gotta Try That, Flamingo Toes, Nifty Thrifty Things, Mom on Timeout, Live Laugh Rowe, Six Sisters’ Stuff, Sincerely Paula, At Home Take 2, What Jean Likes, Crafty Spices, Oh So Amelia,  The Chicken Chick, Twinkle in the Eye, Nanny 2 Mommy, and What About.

 

 

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Filed Under: Happy Marriage, Sex and Intimacy Tagged: intimacy, sex and intimacy, sexy

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  1. Stephanie Olmsted (@acottagedream) says

    January 6, 2013 at 10:10 pm

    Subscribed and thanks for a chance to win.
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    • GC says

      January 7, 2013 at 1:30 am

      Thank you, Stephanie. You are entered.

      Gaye

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  2. Doris says

    January 2, 2013 at 2:11 pm

    Subscribed to enter to win

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    • GC says

      January 2, 2013 at 7:10 pm

      Thanks Doris. You are entered.

      Gaye

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  3. Alicia says

    January 2, 2013 at 2:02 pm

    Looking forward to Following your blog…..

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    • GC says

      January 2, 2013 at 7:14 pm

      Thank you, Alicia. You are entered.

      Gaye

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  4. Bree @ Twinkle in the Eye says

    December 31, 2012 at 5:00 pm

    I think I will put this on the New Years resolution list! Thanks for linking up for Flash Blog Friday 🙂

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    • GC says

      December 31, 2012 at 7:05 pm

      Hi Bree – Yes, it’s a great New Year’s Resolution – lol!

      Have a great New Year.
      Gaye

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  5. Sally Self says

    December 30, 2012 at 10:52 pm

    Staying home for New Years Eve with a fire and then……..

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    • GC says

      December 31, 2012 at 7:09 pm

      I’m right there with ya, Sally! lol!

      Gaye

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  6. I Gotta Try That says

    December 30, 2012 at 10:44 pm

    You always have great advice. Love your articles and I’m so glad that you always share them on “I Gotta Try That” I hope you have a great New Years Gaye! From this article I’m sure you will. 😉
    Cheers,
    Marcie

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    • GC says

      December 31, 2012 at 7:09 pm

      Thanks so much, Marcie. Hope you have a great New Year’s too!

      Gaye

      Reply
  7. Georgie Lee says

    December 29, 2012 at 11:07 pm

    Fun way to end the year and good stuff to think about.

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    • GC says

      December 30, 2012 at 4:54 pm

      Thanks Georgie!

      Gaye

      Reply
  8. Tammie says

    December 29, 2012 at 5:28 pm

    I would like to be entered~please.

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    • GC says

      December 29, 2012 at 10:10 pm

      Thanks Tammie. You are entered.

      Gaye

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  9. Azara (@8Azara8) says

    December 28, 2012 at 10:19 pm

    I’d like to be entered please! Thanks 🙂

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    • GC says

      December 29, 2012 at 12:19 pm

      You are entered. Thanks.

      Gaye

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  10. Eric Bartock says

    December 28, 2012 at 9:26 pm

    I would like to be entered in the giveaway.
    EB

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    • GC says

      December 29, 2012 at 12:19 pm

      Hi Eric – You are entered. Thanks.

      Gaye

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  11. Paula J says

    December 28, 2012 at 8:23 pm

    Think I’ll go have me some sex now lol 😉 Thanks for sharing with my NO RULES Weekend Blog Party! Happy New Year to you :))

    Paula
    lifeasweknowitbypaula.blogspot.com

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    • GC says

      December 28, 2012 at 8:42 pm

      LOL – you and me both!

      Thanks Paula.
      Gaye

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  12. Jana says

    December 28, 2012 at 4:20 pm

    I subscribe to your blog, and would like to be entered in the giveaway. Thanks!

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    • GC says

      December 28, 2012 at 5:20 pm

      Thank you, Jana. You are entered!

      Gaye

      Reply
  13. Laura Ronngren says

    December 28, 2012 at 4:17 pm

    I love Sheila and have been looking forward to this book! I would like to spice up my relationship with my hubby and appreciate sites like yours and Sheila’s and what you do for our marriage.

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    • GC says

      December 28, 2012 at 5:21 pm

      Thanks so much, Laura. You are entered in the giveaway.

      Gaye

      Reply

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